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July 29, 2021

67. Don’t Overthink It w/ Sylvester McNutt III

Are you addicted to overthinking? (like I am) How do you know what to say yes to, or no to? Do you understand the essential importance of being in a men’s group? In this episode, my guest is author Sylvester McNutt III.

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June 16, 2021

66. When Men Don't Grow Up ... Everyone Suffers

Do you prefer the fantasy of relationship to the reality of it? Does relationship seem like an ongoing problem (you have yet to solve)? Could it be that …. we men have been set up to fail in love? Recently,

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June 1, 2021

65. The Journey of Soul Initiation w/ Bill Plotkin

What does it look like to live a truly authentic life? Not just the way some 22-year old tik-tok’er might tell you to live “authentically” … but I mean to live daily connected to the your soul’s deepest purpose for living?

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May 18, 2021

64. Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her) - Part Two

Do you struggle with intimate relationship? Do you have a hard time choosing your partner every … single … day? Do you ever feel UNCHOSEN by your intimate partner? This episode is a bit unusual in that it’s actually a rebroadcast of another podcast I w...

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May 5, 2021

63. Are You Being Authentic … Or Just A Jerk? w/ Dr. Aziz

What does it (really) mean to be authentic? How can you know when you’re being authentic, or just being a jerk? Are you aware that your thoughts may be lying to you, actually preventing you from being authentic? In this episode, my guest is Dr.

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April 23, 2021

62. The Magic of Surrender w/ Kute Blackson

Do you really think you’re in control of your life? Do you ever feel stuck or stagnant, or like no matter how hard you grind, true happiness and fulfillment seem always just out of reach? What if the fulfillment you seek,

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Feb. 25, 2021

61. Navigating Chivalry & Gender-Equality in The Modern World w/ Shu Matsuo Post

How can we reconcile old notions of chivalry with modern expectations of gender-equality? Can gender-equality actually help MEN feel more free, too? Do you really understand the (daily) privileges men have over women? In this episode, my guest,

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Jan. 30, 2021

60. Sexual Self-Mastery w/ Destin Gerek

What do men tend to misunderstand about sex and sexual pleasure? Can a lack of body sensitivity be the underlying cause of sex and intimacy issues? What practices can men do to increase sensitivity, and thus sexual pleasure (both for ourselves and our ...

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Jan. 12, 2021

59. The 4th Pillar of a Thriving Man ~ BROTHERHOOD ~ w/ Tait Arend (My Lifelong Soul-Brother)

What happens when men don’t have deep connections with other men? What’s the cost to our vitality, fulfillment, when we lone-wolf it through life? Could being part of an intentional brotherhood serve your life? In this episode, my guest is,

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Dec. 2, 2020

58. The 2nd Pillar of a Thriving Man ~ INTIMACY ~ w/ Silvy Khoucasian (My Intimate Partner)

What is intimacy … really? Can you experience intimacy without another person actually present? (hint: yes!) Why do so many men (women, too!) struggle with sustaining intimacy? In this episode, my very special guest and I dive into these questions and ...

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Nov. 11, 2020

57. The 5 Pillars Of A Thriving Man

Why do men (even when we succeed) often struggle to enjoy our daily lives? What are we missing on our endlessly futile “pursuit of happiness”? What are the key ingredients for a deeply fulfilling life? In this episode,

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Sept. 17, 2020

56. Don’t Take Sides (Do Take a Position)

Are you struggling with the growing divisions in our current world? Are you afraid things might get worse before they get better? Did you know that a descent into darkness, a terrifying uncertainty, is essential for human transformation?

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Aug. 26, 2020

55. Why Men Need Personal Growth Work (With Other Men) w/ Sascha Lewis

Do you genuinely trust other men? Do you hesitate to trust your own emotions? Why do we men need to hit bottom before we’re (truly) ready to change? In this episode, my guest is Sascha Lewis, co-founder of the international men’s group organization,

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Aug. 12, 2020

54. Your Divine Appointment (When The Worst Thing Becomes The Best Thing) w/ Rev James Trapp

What is your divine appointment (what you’re uniquely here to do)? What is your “essential necessity” (that keeps you going when things get tough)? How can we contribute to the world in ways that don’t create more upset & division? My guest today,

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July 31, 2020

53. The New Alpha Male (Feels Everything) w/ Lance Allred

Have you (finally!) discovered the power of questioning your conclusions? Have you ever successfully climbed the mountains of your aspirations … only to find utter disappointment there? In this episode, my guest is, Lance Allred,

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July 6, 2020

52. A Man Without A Father’s Praise (Never Feels Successful Enough)

Have you struggled to feel successful (enough)? Have you struggled in relationship when you were professionally unfulfilled? Did you know that a dad’s essential gift to a child is to instill both the drive to succeed,

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June 26, 2020

51. Don't Let Ambition Ruin Your Happiness w/ Brenden (Bam!) Durell

Can you tell a better story about your greatest disappointments? Could ambition be getting in the way of you (actually) enjoying your life? Did you know cacao – REAL cacao – can help you connect with an intimate partner, and with yourself?

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June 12, 2020

50. The Heart Knows w/ Arjuna O'Neal

Ever struggle with forgiveness? Can you stay in your heart, even when facing someone who hates you? Are you open to an essential, profound conversation between two men on racism? In this episode, my guest, Arjuna O’Neal … and I mine these questions and...

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May 29, 2020

49. You're Hurt. I'm Angry. Now What? w/ Figs O'Sullivan

Is relationship conflict your ongoing nemesis? Have you ever been accused of not being sensitive? Do you really understand empathy (and why it’s essential)? In this episode, my guest, Figs O’Sullivan, and I mine these questions and more for useful insi...

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May 14, 2020

48. How Porn Ruined My Intimacy

When was the last time you watched porn? Could porn be negatively affecting your sexuality? Do you ever turn to, or prefer porn, over an actual partner? Have you ever used porn to get turned on for a partner? (even if just in your imagination?

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April 17, 2020

47. The Power of Stopping (Before Starting) w/ Tommy Rosen

What is the real addiction this pandemic is forcing us to face? When your world suddenly stops, what’s the most inspired way to get it started again? Tommy Rosen, founder of Recovery 2.0, is one of the reasons I love living in Los Angeles.

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March 28, 2020

46. Why ‘The Feminine’ Will Destroy You (and You Need Her To)

As this coronavirus pandemic has been unfolding, I’ve been replaying over and over in my mind that scene from the movie Avatar, at the end, where Pandora – that’s the name of the planet the movie takes place on – marshals all her resources,

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March 17, 2020

45. How To Date (and Love) Authentically, Powerfully w/ Joshua Hathaway and Robert Schwenkler

Do you ever repress your desires for fear of being judged or rejected? Do you know how to lead powerfully with authenticity in the dating world? Are you turned off (and secretly fascinated) by the pick-up artist world? In this episode, my guests,

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Feb. 18, 2020

44. Why You Must Do The One Thing (You Love) Every Day

What is the one thing you know you should be doing everyday to ensure you have an epic day? Are you regularly doing it? If not, why not? … Are you aware of the cost? In this episode, inspired by a conversation I had just last night,

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